I follow this wonderful blog written by a woman in NYC. Like me, she writes about life and her observations. Yesterday she wrote this post.
In closing, she wrote:
I’m giving you homework tonight. At the end of the evening, go back and reflect on your day. Write the highs and the lows.
She went on to say the highs must be equal to or outnumber the lows, and wondered at the process.
I’ve actually been considering this as a way to keep me looking for the positive while I’m in this state of mind, so I was inclined to accept her homework assignment.
It was a quiet, and mostly uneventful day. Here’s what I came up with.
As you can see, I made two columns.
A yay column and a boo column. I felt making it playful might possibly cut the edge.
Under the yay column is written:
*pampered with pedi (a curious Tiffany blue color that reads a bit greenish)
*chili for dinner (seems self explanatory)
*ladies free skate (thanks, Olympics)
*Beat Bobby Flay (love to binge this show while I’m doing things around the house)
*sold 4 items (at a discount, but still made profit)
Under the boo column is written:
*stuffy ear cannot hear (also hurts, but already on antibiotics)
*rainy af (especially after two days of gorgeous, the rain just seems to make my emotional mood worse)
*low (seems self explanatory)
I actually enjoyed this exercise. Of course I already mentioned it was an uneventful day, which made it simpler to watch a little TV after coming home from a well executed pedicure at a new salon.
But taking that time for myself, stopping to have my feet pampered, then watching Bobby Flay while I prepped dinner and did a few things around the house made me feel comfortable and content. Simple ways to live my intention.
I’m going to continue this daily exercise for a while and pay close attention to where my focus is during my days.
Thanks, LA for putting it out there so I could pick it up.
Love your observations!! Thanks! And im putting this into practice as well. My new goal is positivity!!❤️❤️
Amen to that!
What a great idea. Kudos for doing this and sharing it. 💖
I like the idea of trying to keep the positives list longer than the negatives! Fun exercise but I could never keep it up daily! Omg! never! 🙂 😀 Hugs to you for doing your homework, Robyn! I would give you an A+!! xo ❤
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